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Speaking Out in 2024: My Messages With Diana Galvis Patino
My attempt to speak about abuse while building my business in 2024: messages with Diana Galvis Patino, access to my work, the restraining order process I report, and the unsigned proposed agreement I experienced as pressure to stop speaking.
I am Lucas Mora. In February 2024, at eighteen, I remember beginning to understand the pattern I had lived through as abuse. The messages I sent in March help me place an early attempt to speak publicly alongside what I was telling my family about home, hospital, work, and the future I wanted.
I was building a future while trying to be heard. My digital work had begun years before these messages. In 2024, I was trying to keep working, access my computer, and prepare to leave home while explaining experiences I felt others were treating as my bad behavior. I experienced the family responses, treatment against my wishes, and pressure surrounding the legal process as silencing.
I began speaking publicly in that period because my parents called police while I was trying to open my LLC’s bank account. I was trying to build my business and become independent. That is the trigger I now identify for this 2024 attempt, not a claim that it was my first disclosure of abuse or a precisely dated police finding.
This chapter is separate from the police calls and reported restraining order discussed in my 2026 updates. The five document images below show a proposed agreement from March 2024 with blank dates and signatures. They are not a signed agreement or a final court order.
An early attempt to say what was happening
I remember telling my parents in early February 2024 that I intended to leave by my birthday in May. I was eighteen. I describe a later nighttime police call and a hospitalization against my wishes, followed by conversations with other adults at the hospital that helped me recognize my experiences as abuse. That is my recollection; the underlying call and the room recording I say I am looking for are not supplied here.
I remember going alone to open my first business bank account with business paperwork. My understanding was that my mother reported the car stolen and said I intended to scam the bank. I remember coming outside to approximately five police cars, recording, explaining myself, and being told I did not have to return home. My earlier description placed this shortly after I turned eighteen; my current account connects it with speaking publicly in 2024. The exact bank date and its relationship to the business filing still need a dated record. I am not combining that encounter with the separate nighttime call.
I identify March 2024 as an early attempt to speak publicly that I can now place alongside these March 2024 messages. My current account also refers to attempts in 2023, and the messages say I had tried telling people for years. I am not claiming that nobody had heard any disclosure before March 2024 or that one conversation was the first time I ever tried to communicate fear. [E05]
I felt that the police response reinforced my parents' account and left me unheard. That describes my experience of the response. The proposed agreement does not establish what police knew, why they acted, or that West Milford Police Department coordinated a plan to silence me.
I felt that my work, ambition, and plan to leave were being interpreted as symptoms instead of being heard as a plan for independence. That is my experience, not an independent clinical finding or a claim that every concern about my safety was knowingly fabricated.
The distinction between fear, disclosure, and recognizing abuse
What I told Diana Galvis Patino, and what she said back
I identify the aunt in these messages as Diana Galvis Patino. The visible conversation header says Diana Galvis, and earlier parts of my account referred to her as Diana Patino. I am clarifying the name I use for the same person, not presenting independent verification of her legal name. She is not Adriana Galvis, the aunt I identify in the 2019 messages. The supplied views have March 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 25, 26, and 27, 2024 date dividers. They overlap and are selected excerpts, not a complete Instagram export. [E03]
In the early March exchange, Diana said she had gone to police because she was worried about my wellbeing. I responded that I had felt unsupported during abuse and could not access my computer and work. I described physical abuse, said the treatment had continued in other forms after physical violence stopped, and said I had tried telling people for years. The messages show that I was already making those statements in 2024. They do not independently establish every underlying event.
I also wrote that I had been wrongly diagnosed and had been told about trauma and PTSD in hospital. Diana said that, whatever the diagnosis, I needed professional help. This matters to the chronology because my discussion of trauma and PTSD did not begin only with the later Chicago reassessment.
The same early March exchange includes messages in which I expressed severe distress and thoughts about not continuing to live. I am preserving that context in this non graphic summary rather than exposing the full private messages. These are historical March 2024 statements, not evidence of my present intentions or an independent justification for any particular intervention. It would be misleading to remove them and then say the conversation proved every concern for my safety was knowingly fabricated.
These selected messages do not establish everything I may have told relatives at other times or everything I describe elsewhere. I am not treating Diana's replies, or the older messages with Adriana, as proof that either aunt knew about experiences that are not established by the supplied exchange.
Diana is my mother's sister. By this March exchange, she had received messages in which I directly described abuse by my parents. I felt dismissed by being told to move forward without focusing on what had caused my situation. The screenshots show what I told her and the replies, including her expressed concern. They establish that I raised abuse with her here, not when she first learned about it or everything she may have done outside this conversation. The particular reply offering an Uber to court needs its own context below.
The conversation alongside this account
March 2024: messages I identify as being with Diana Galvis Patino
March 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 25, 26, and 27, 2024, visible in the supplied sequence
Selected screenshots supplied by Lucas, with privacy redactions. These are not complete conversation exports. Open an image to enlarge it, or use its full-size link. Selected words from each image are reproduced below it.
Messages are not a clinical chart, audited accounts, a court disposition, or proof that every safety concern was knowingly fabricated. My March 26 wording about making an LLC by May does not match the February 21, 2024 effective filing date in the state certificate, E07. The reason for my wording remains unexplained. The court context is my recollection; the messages do not establish Diana's private motives. New outgoing messages at the recording's end are not part of the March exchange.
March 3, 2024: the police concern and Lucas's response
Selected text in this screenshot
Also, to clarify, yes I went to the police because I’m worried about your well being. WMPD has an address in Wayne that YOU have them.
Diana
If you were worried about my well being you should’ve been there when I was actively being abused by my parents.
Lucas
The last few years you have been unreachable, and I was respecting your space.
Diana
You might think I have not been there but I have always been
Diana
A response Lucas experienced as dismissive
Selected text in this screenshot
You are stuck in the past, you need to move forward and find a solution for your situation right now, without focusing on what caused it.
Diana
The separate 2019 messages I identify as Adriana's
The distinction between these family messages and my later personal disclosure
I disclosed abuse. The reply was an Uber to court
Dated message · E03-10 · Court context: my recollection.
In the consecutive messages preserved in E03-10, I wrote: “Abuse is abuse. Doesn’t matter when it’s reported. I tried telling people for years and no one believed me.” Diana Galvis Patino replied: “I’ll pay your Uber to court” and then “DO NOT miss it”. The original excerpt is shown with the surrounding discussion, not as a reconstructed conversation. [E03]
The Uber Diana Galvis Patino offered was, in my recollection, to court where my parents were seeking a restraining order against me. It was not a ride to report abuse. I had just disclosed abuse. I experienced that response as pressure to be silenced, not help.
The exchange establishes that I communicated an abuse disclosure to her. The screenshot alone does not establish the court’s purpose, her private motives, or her knowledge of every earlier event. My experience of the reply belongs beside those limits. Her other expressions of concern and later supportive replies also remain in the record, in their own context.
The conversation alongside this account
March 2024: messages I identify as being with Diana Galvis Patino
March 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 25, 26, and 27, 2024, visible in the supplied sequence
Selected screenshots supplied by Lucas, with privacy redactions. These are not complete conversation exports. Open an image to enlarge it, or use its full-size link. Selected words from each image are reproduced below it.
Messages are not a clinical chart, audited accounts, a court disposition, or proof that every safety concern was knowingly fabricated. My March 26 wording about making an LLC by May does not match the February 21, 2024 effective filing date in the state certificate, E07. The reason for my wording remains unexplained. The court context is my recollection; the messages do not establish Diana's private motives. New outgoing messages at the recording's end are not part of the March exchange.
My abuse disclosure and Diana Galvis Patino's court reply
Selected text in this screenshot
Abuse is abuse. Doesn’t matter when it’s reported. I tried telling people for years and no one believed me.
Lucas
I'll pay your Uber to court
Diana
DO NOT miss it
Diana
Inspect the abuse disclosure and consecutive court replies
Read the unsigned proposal separately from my court recollection
The responses I experienced as dismissive, and the help she offered
I accused my parents of telling other people that I was a scammer. Diana described the accusation as a rumor around town, said my parents were concerned, and said my mother had asked about it because of her. We disagreed about what was happening. These messages do not establish who started the rumor or whether an accusation was true or false. [E03]
When Diana told me to focus on a solution without focusing on what had caused the situation, I felt the history I was trying to describe was being put aside. The quote below is part of why I experienced the conversation as dismissive. Separately from the court exchange, she discussed my access to my computer and later suggested renting office space. Those parts of the conversation also belong here.
I was trying to explain what had brought me there. I felt told to move past it.
Later in March, she wrote, “I'm super proud and impressed with all the knowledge you have.” We were discussing the social media and marketing work I had been doing. I can feel hurt by parts of an exchange and still acknowledge its practical offers of help. Those offers do not erase my experience, and my experience does not justify removing them from the record.
When I said I had nowhere to work, she suggested a small office. I replied that I did not want to sleep in an office, and she clarified that she meant somewhere to work for my business. That was the context of her office suggestion, rather than an offer of housing. E03-33 preserves both her suggestion and my response.
My computer was not a side issue for me. It was where I said my work was, and in these messages I described being unable to access it. The work represented a possible way to support myself and leave. When I described scamming accusations and being hospitalized while explaining my income, I was trying to connect the effect on my business with the effect on my ability to speak about home.
You are stuck in the past, you need to move forward and find a solution for your situation right now, without focusing on what caused it.
The conversation alongside this account
March 2024: messages I identify as being with Diana Galvis Patino
March 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 25, 26, and 27, 2024, visible in the supplied sequence
Selected screenshots supplied by Lucas, with privacy redactions. These are not complete conversation exports. Open an image to enlarge it, or use its full-size link. Selected words from each image are reproduced below it.
Messages are not a clinical chart, audited accounts, a court disposition, or proof that every safety concern was knowingly fabricated. My March 26 wording about making an LLC by May does not match the February 21, 2024 effective filing date in the state certificate, E07. The reason for my wording remains unexplained. The court context is my recollection; the messages do not establish Diana's private motives. New outgoing messages at the recording's end are not part of the March exchange.
The disagreement about accusations of scamming
Marketing discussion and a supportive response
Selected text in this screenshot
I'm super proud and impressed with all the knowledge you have.
Diana
Diana suggests an office
Selected text in this screenshot
Why don't you rent a small office
Diana
No I mean for your business
Diana
Where you can work from
Diana
The business conversation later that month
The business formation date and the conflicting March LLC wording
March 5: objections, pressure, and uncertainty about signing
I report experiencing a temporary restraining order process in 2024. The March messages refer to a TRO and court, while the separate five page document contains proposed civil restraints. Those are related parts of the period I am describing, but they are not interchangeable records. The unsigned proposal is not the entered order or the eventual court outcome.
Under the March 5 divider, after sharing the document images, I wrote: “I don't agree with any of this at all”. I described feeling that the terms would stop me from returning for my belongings or talking about what had happened. Diana initially advised me to read the agreement and tell the lawyer which parts I disagreed with. [E03, March 5]
Later, I wrote: “I'll sign it but I don't know what it even is” and “To me it looks like it just says that I can never go home or talk to them or get my stuff”. Diana replied: “Sign it and send it over” and then “To the lawyer”. Later I asked: “How do I sign it” and wrote: “I don't even know what I'm signing”. She answered: “Let's do one thing at a time”.
Those exchanges matter to my account of pressure and uncertainty. I am preserving her earlier advice to raise objections alongside the later instruction to sign. My statement that I would sign is not proof that I signed. My interpretation of the document in a distressed conversation is also not a legal explanation of its effect.
What the five pages of the proposed agreement say
The supplied document is titled “Consent Agreement for Civil Restraints” in Luisa Mora v. Lucas Mora, Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Passaic County. It is on Porro Law Group, LLC letterhead and identifies Kristen Porro Reilly, Esq. as appearing for the plaintiff. It refers to March 2024, but the displayed date, day, and signature spaces are blank. The screenshots overlap neighboring pages. [E04]
The following is a readable source summary, not advice about enforceability or the effect of any current order. All five supplied pages are available in the source gallery, including the blank signatures and the proposed acknowledgment that is uncomfortable for me to read.
- Page 1 identifies the parties, court, document type, and unfilled March 2024 date. That visible status is why I call it a proposed, unsigned copy.
- Page 2, clauses 1 through 5, sets out agreement to terms; broad communication restrictions involving my mother and immediate family or household members; restrictions on mail and use of her address; conditions for registration, insurance, costs, and use of a white Prius; and restrictions on communication through third parties.
- Page 3, clause 6, describes social media activity that could be perceived as attempted contact, including posts, comments, tags, photographs, captions, and shares. Clause 7 concerns approaching or contacting her at her residence or employment. Clause 8 concerns accessing her accounts, devices, and private information. Clause 9 is the proposed restriction on disparaging her reputation or name quoted below.
- Page 4, clause 10, concerns discussing, sharing, or publishing private, sensitive, or confidential information about the plaintiff. Clauses 11 through 13 concern contact, potential future restraining order requests, enforcement costs, and visits to residence or employment. These are proposed terms, not evidence of later enforcement.
- Clause 14 begins on page 4 and continues on page 5. It would have me acknowledge the prior conduct alleged in the referenced temporary restraining order, not dispute its accuracy, and permit reliance on that history in a future proceeding. Its presence does not mean that I actually made that acknowledgment.
- Page 5, clause 15, says the plaintiff agrees to voluntarily dismiss the pending domestic violence action. That proposed promise is not proof of a dismissal. Clauses 16 and 17 state matters concerning counsel, adequate time, decision making, and knowing and voluntary agreement. In this unsigned copy, those statements do not establish that I had independent counsel or voluntarily executed the document. Clause 18 concerns service after entry. The displayed date and signature lines remain blank.
Inspect all five proposed agreement pages and their limits
Why the speech restrictions and acknowledgment mattered to me
Clause 9 says: “Defendant shall be restrained from disparaging or attempting to disparage the Plaintiff's reputation or name in any way shape or form.” [E04, page 3, clause 9]
I read that proposed language alongside the terms about social media, private information, and communication. I was trying to tell people what I remembered at home. I felt that agreeing could make it harder to describe those experiences, and the proposed acknowledgment in clause 14 made the decision feel even more consequential. That is why the messages about not knowing what I was signing matter to me.
At the same time, I was trying to regain access to my work and decide where I could live. I feared losing access to home, my family, my belongings, and my dog, and being unable to speak about what had happened. I felt pressure to make those decisions while I was already struggling. That is my understanding and experience of the proposal and conversation, not a claim that the unsigned terms had taken legal effect or permanently prohibited every future visit or contact.
The proposal also contains practical terms and a provision for dismissal of the pending action. I am showing those parts too. It would be inaccurate to turn this document into an automatically effective order banning all speech, or to treat its proposed statements about consent as proof of what I agreed to. The entire displayed copy needs to remain available to readers.
What I say happened afterward, and what the supplied record does not establish
My current account is that I never signed the proposed agreement and that the restraining order was later dropped for lack of grounds. Those are my statements about the outcome. No signed copy, docket disposition, dismissal order, or record of the court's reasoning is supplied here. [E05]
I am not presenting this packet as a finding that a court cleared me, found that my parents lied, or ruled on my abuse account. The document and messages show a proposal and a conversation about it. They do not establish the court's final disposition.
The police calls and reported restraining order discussed elsewhere on this site belong to 2026. I am not using this older proposed agreement to infer a current deadline to remove the site, an arrest outcome, or permission to ignore any present order. This chapter adds the 2024 context without silently changing those later call transcripts.
The separate reported proceedings in 2026
Read the later police call transcripts
The attempt that stalled, and the fuller story I returned to
My attempt to speak out in 2024 stalled. In 2026, I began publicly putting the fuller story together, reconnecting my memories with older messages and sharing the life I had built since leaving.
The threats involving lawyers, police, and a restraining order, followed by what I experienced in treatment, are why I stopped speaking out. That is how I understand the silence that followed. I am describing the reason I give for going quiet, not claiming the sources independently establish a coordinated plan or everyone’s motives.
I now place three hospitalizations in 2024: February, May, and June. I remember the June stay lasting approximately five to six weeks, roughly three and a half hours from home. During that stay, I remember refusing medication for the first two weeks, then being forcibly woken, restrained, and injected on three mornings. After that, I complied and began taking the medication because I did not feel I had a choice. These are my treatment recollections, not findings from clinical records. The medication chapter gives them their own space.
I do not mean that I had never disclosed abuse before. I describe earlier efforts, including attempts in 2023, and these March messages show me saying I had tried telling people for years. The website's recorded publication on September 24, 2026 and the source additions recorded on October 1 are later steps in that history, not dates when all of these experiences first occurred.
I remember treatment and medication against my wishes, emotional dulling, and difficulty accessing parts of my experience during the intervening period. My medication and memory chapter explains how that felt and why revisiting old messages now matters to me. It does not treat my belief about medication as a medically established cause.
Writing on October 2, 2026, I am finding that reviewing messages from the past week is bringing back more of what I remember. I am recording those memories alongside the messages and records I have found.
I kept working. I later left New Jersey, reached Chicago, and built a life with Samara, friends, chosen family, and my business. The work was part of how I built a way forward.
The June treatment I remember and why I went quiet
Read the emotional and memory effects I describe
About this account
A note on accuracy
E03 contains selected, overlapping views of messages, not a complete platform export or clinical record. E04 is an unsigned copy of a proposed agreement, not proof of execution, entry, or disposition. E05 is my current account, not a separate witness. Privacy redactions and a non graphic summary of historical distress preserve relevant context without exposing unrelated people or private identifiers. The unresolved court outcome remains attributed to me.
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Reviewed source material
Selected conversation stills, not complete exports, and reviewed document images. Overlapping views preserve context. Privacy redactions are part of the actual image files. The five proposed agreement pages remain in their supplied order; E07 is the separate formation certificate.
E03: March 2024: messages I identify as being with Diana Galvis Patino
March 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 25, 26, and 27, 2024, visible in the supplied sequence
Messages are not a clinical chart, audited accounts, a court disposition, or proof that every safety concern was knowingly fabricated. My March 26 wording about making an LLC by May does not match the February 21, 2024 effective filing date in the state certificate, E07. The reason for my wording remains unexplained. The court context is my recollection; the messages do not establish Diana's private motives. New outgoing messages at the recording's end are not part of the March exchange.
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March 3, 2024: the police concern and Lucas's response
Also, to clarify, yes I went to the police because I’m worried about your well being. WMPD has an address in Wayne that YOU have them.
Diana
If you were worried about my well being you should’ve been there when I was actively being abused by my parents.
Lucas
The last few years you have been unreachable, and I was respecting your space.
Diana
You might think I have not been there but I have always been
Diana
The disagreement about accusations of scamming
The disagreement about diagnosis and help
A response Lucas experienced as dismissive
You are stuck in the past, you need to move forward and find a solution for your situation right now, without focusing on what caused it.
Diana
My abuse disclosure and Diana Galvis Patino's court reply
Abuse is abuse. Doesn’t matter when it’s reported. I tried telling people for years and no one believed me.
Lucas
I'll pay your Uber to court
Diana
DO NOT miss it
Diana
Historical distress and Diana's reassurance
You do have a future
Diana
March 5: objections to the proposed agreement
I don't agree with any of this at all
Lucas
Lucas read it thoroughly, and write back to the lawyer and let her know what you do not agree with
Diana
Advice about objections and an offer of a ride
March 5: willingness to sign and uncertainty
I'll sign it but I don't know what it even is
Lucas
Sign it and send it over
Diana
To the lawyer
Diana
I don't even know what I'm signing
Lucas
Let's do one thing at a time
Diana
March 25 and 26: contact resumes
Remembering online work since middle school
Marketing discussion and a supportive response
I'm super proud and impressed with all the knowledge you have.
Diana
My March wording beside the February formation record
That's why I told my parents I needed until May to make my LLC and then show that on paper.
Lucas
Diana suggests an office
Why don't you rent a small office
Diana
No I mean for your business
Diana
Where you can work from
Diana
E04: The proposed civil restraints agreement
March 2024 referenced in the unsigned copy; day and execution date unfilled
Not a signed agreement, entered order, proof of service, dismissal order, or independent evidence of the eventual outcome. I now say I never signed and the restraining order was dropped for lack of grounds. Those are my reports, not conclusions established by these pages. This is separate from the 2026 proceedings.
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Proposed agreement, page 1
Proposed agreement, page 2
Proposed agreement, page 3
Proposed agreement, page 4
Proposed agreement, page 5
E05: My current account of memory, treatment, and earlier events
October 1 explanation, expanded October 2, 2026
No clinical chart or medical causation finding accompanies this material. Sympathy from a recipient is not corroboration. Small forwarded thumbnails do not establish the content of other attachments; this index does not claim those referenced files were supplied or reviewed.
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Lucas's current account of the proposal and reported outcome
I never signed it
Lucas
Lucas's current statement about medication and memory
For years, I believed I had forgotten much of the abuse and trauma because I hit my head snowboarding. Since coming off the medication, I feel clearer minded and memories I thought were gone have returned.
Lucas
I cannot medically prove what caused my memory problems or state their intentions as fact.
Lucas